{"id":9055,"date":"2025-01-13T08:15:00","date_gmt":"2025-01-13T08:15:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/?p=9055"},"modified":"2024-11-24T07:17:39","modified_gmt":"2024-11-24T07:17:39","slug":"teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/","title":{"rendered":"When Your Teenage Child Refuses to Go to School: Effective Solutions for Parents"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_68_1 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Definition_and_Prevalence_of_Teens_School_Refusal\" title=\"Definition and Prevalence of Teen&#8217;s School Refusal\">Definition and Prevalence of Teen&#8217;s School Refusal<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Symptoms_of_School_Refusal_In_Teenagers\" title=\"Symptoms of School Refusal In Teenagers\">Symptoms of School Refusal In Teenagers<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#What_Can_Cause_School_Refusal_In_Teenagers\" title=\"What Can Cause School Refusal In Teenagers?\">What Can Cause School Refusal In Teenagers?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Anxiety_and_Depression\" title=\"Anxiety and Depression\">Anxiety and Depression<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Bullying\" title=\"Bullying\">Bullying<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Family_Stress\" title=\"Family Stress\">Family Stress<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Academic_Stress\" title=\"Academic Stress\">Academic Stress<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Strategies_for_Encouraging_School_Attendance\" title=\"Strategies for Encouraging School Attendance\">Strategies for Encouraging School Attendance<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Stay_in_Touch_with_the_School_Staff\" title=\"Stay in Touch with the School Staff\">Stay in Touch with the School Staff<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Seek_Help_from_a_Mental_Health_Professional\" title=\"Seek Help from a Mental Health Professional\">Seek Help from a Mental Health Professional<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Self-Care_for_Parents\" title=\"Self-Care for Parents\">Self-Care for Parents<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Legal_Considerations\" title=\"Legal Considerations\">Legal Considerations<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/teenage-child-refuses-to-go-to-school\/#Teenage_school_refusal_FAQ\" title=\"Teenage school refusal FAQ\">Teenage school refusal FAQ<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s common for teenagers to avoid school once in a while. But watching your child refuse school doesn&#8217;t make it more bearable. As a parent, you have every right to be worried. After all, it&#8217;s your child&#8217;s academic future and social life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Teenage children refuse to go to school. Is there something deeper going on? Many parents share your concerns.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The good news is that you can<\/span><b> help your child overcome school anxiety and feel comfortable to attend school again<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Let&#8217;s explore practical steps:<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Definition_and_Prevalence_of_Teens_School_Refusal\"><\/span><b>Definition and Prevalence of Teen&#8217;s School Refusal<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Teenage or middle school students might feel like skipping school <\/span><b>sometimes<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. As long as the situation is not prolonged, you don&#8217;t have to worry about school refusal. <\/span><b>Truancy is common<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> among teenagers, which means deliberately skipping school.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the condition is prolonged and your child refuses to go to school for shorter periods, they might face school refusal. Generally, <\/span><b>school refusal has environmental, emotional, or mental roots.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><b>School phobia <\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or school refusal is not about laziness or your child being stubborn. It&#8217;s a complex issue that can have multiple causes. Depression, anxiety, stress, or struggling with academic performance are common examples.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When dealing with a teenager refusing to go to school, the important step is to <\/span><b>recognise the symptoms and identify the causes.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Symptoms_of_School_Refusal_In_Teenagers\"><\/span><b>Symptoms of School Refusal In Teenagers<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Identifying the symptoms of school refusal is an important step. The earliest you find out, the better you can help your child cope. Below are the most common symptoms. A teenager can suffer from more than one of the symptoms below.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Anxiety.<\/b><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Depression.<\/b><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Difficulty sleeping and waking up.<\/b><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Physical discomforts.<\/b><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Appetite change.<\/b><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Low self-efficacy.<\/b><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Emotional outburst.<\/b><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Social anxiety and withdrawal.<\/b><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Excessive fatigue.<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A teenager with school refusal can suffer from more than one of the conditions above.\u00a0<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-9056 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Orange-Illustrated-Kids-5-Step-Process-Workbook-Worksheet-1.jpg\" alt=\"why teenage child refuses to go to school\" width=\"1414\" height=\"2000\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Orange-Illustrated-Kids-5-Step-Process-Workbook-Worksheet-1.jpg 1414w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Orange-Illustrated-Kids-5-Step-Process-Workbook-Worksheet-1-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Orange-Illustrated-Kids-5-Step-Process-Workbook-Worksheet-1-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Orange-Illustrated-Kids-5-Step-Process-Workbook-Worksheet-1-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Orange-Illustrated-Kids-5-Step-Process-Workbook-Worksheet-1-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Orange-Illustrated-Kids-5-Step-Process-Workbook-Worksheet-1-150x212.jpg 150w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Orange-Illustrated-Kids-5-Step-Process-Workbook-Worksheet-1-450x636.jpg 450w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Orange-Illustrated-Kids-5-Step-Process-Workbook-Worksheet-1-1200x1697.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1414px) 100vw, 1414px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_Can_Cause_School_Refusal_In_Teenagers\"><\/span><b>What Can Cause School Refusal In Teenagers?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">School refusal can have more than one cause. Timely identification and intervention help your child cope with the issue. Both mental health disorders and external causes can lead to school refusal.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&#8217;s take a look at the most common causes:<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Anxiety_and_Depression\"><\/span><b>Anxiety and Depression<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to a 2020 study, there&#8217;s a strong<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.frontiersin.org\/journals\/public-health\/articles\/10.3389\/fpubh.2020.598915\/full\"> <b>connection between school refusal and social anxiety<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Depression and anxiety can make attending school overwhelming for your child.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Anxiety can also lead to a loss of focus on academic performance. Which ultimately leads to school refusal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How can you help? First,<\/span><b> create a safe environment for your child.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The steps below are helpful:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be an active listener.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encourage them to speak with you.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoid being judgmental.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Validate their feelings.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show your unconditional love and protection.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical activity can also help teens with depression and anxiety. Don&#8217;t force anything, though. Encourage them to pursue their interests. <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/what-are-your-childs-interests\/\"><b>What are your child&#8217;s interests?<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Help them discover their passion and build healthy habits.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Bullying\"><\/span><b>Bullying<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many students avoid school due to the fear of being bullied. The physical and emotional damage aside, being bullied can lead to lower self-esteem in children.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Open communication<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> about your child&#8217;s feelings is always helpful. <\/span><b>Inform the school&#8217;s officials<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and ask for help from the teacher and <\/span><b>SENCO<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Family_Stress\"><\/span><b>Family Stress<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A stressful family environment can lead to school refusal.<\/span><b> Financial difficulties, conflict, loss of a family member or illness<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have complex impacts on teenagers.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t put excessive pressure on your teenager. Create a stable environment and focus on their emotional wellbeing. When it comes to attending school and behaviour, <\/span><b>encourage the effort and small steps.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Academic_Stress\"><\/span><b>Academic Stress<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With all the physical changes and social pressure, being a teenager is challenging by nature. Academic stress only adds to the mix.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No need to worry, though. We have just the solution for you: <\/span><b>personalised attention and lesson plans<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">At <\/span><b>Ostado<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, we help students all around the UK overcome the challenges of school. Whether your child needs exam preparation, learning complex subjects, or a boost of confidence, we are here for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">With the help of our<strong> online tutors<\/strong> and <\/span><b>expert supporters,<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> your child will learn the knowledge and skills and be ready to go back to school.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Strategies_for_Encouraging_School_Attendance\"><\/span><b>Strategies for Encouraging School Attendance<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many parents wonder about how to force a teenager to go to school. The short answer is, Don&#8217;t! Enforcing school attendance without addressing the underlying issue is not a good idea.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Identify <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the reasons behind your child&#8217;s school avoidance and<\/span><b> help them cope<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Establish a routine and encourage small steps.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A <\/span><b>consistent and balanced routine<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> promotes a sense of predictability, which is excellent for relieving anxiety. It\u2019s also a great strategy if you\u2019re wondering about <\/span><b>how to build confidence in children.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Stay_in_Touch_with_the_School_Staff\"><\/span><b>Stay in Touch with the School Staff<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Set up a meeting with relevant school staff to discuss your child&#8217;s situation. Be prepared to talk about the challenges your child is facing and to collaborate on a support plan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Explore your options with the school. Most schools create individualised support plans.<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/assets.publishing.service.gov.uk\/media\/5a80b77940f0b623026951ae\/sen-IEP_Guidance_archived14june2016.pdf\"> <b>Individual Education Plan (IEP)<\/b><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.schools.norfolk.gov.uk\/media\/13878\/Pastoral-support-plan-PSP-template\/doc\/2lpastoral-support-plan-template.docx?m=1701425113277\"><b> Pastoral Support Plan (PSP)<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> are good examples.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">These plans can help your child overcome emotional and learning challenges.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Seek_Help_from_a_Mental_Health_Professional\"><\/span><b>Seek Help from a Mental Health Professional<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In case your teen&#8217;s school anxiety worsens despite your efforts, ask for professional help. There might be underlying issues needing further exploration.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>GP (General Practitioner) <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is often the first point of contact for mental health concerns. They can assess your child&#8217;s mental health. If needed, they should make references to specialised services such as<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/mental-health\/children-and-young-adults\/mental-health-support\/\"> <b>Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS).<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can also check<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gov.uk\/children-with-special-educational-needs\"><b> Children with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND)<\/b><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> for more information and support.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Self-Care_for_Parents\"><\/span><b>Self-Care for Parents<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-9057 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Brown-3-Tips-Parenting-Cover-Title-Instagram-Post-1.jpg\" alt=\"self care tips for parents \" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Brown-3-Tips-Parenting-Cover-Title-Instagram-Post-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Brown-3-Tips-Parenting-Cover-Title-Instagram-Post-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Brown-3-Tips-Parenting-Cover-Title-Instagram-Post-1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Brown-3-Tips-Parenting-Cover-Title-Instagram-Post-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Brown-3-Tips-Parenting-Cover-Title-Instagram-Post-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Brown-3-Tips-Parenting-Cover-Title-Instagram-Post-1-70x70.jpg 70w, https:\/\/ostado.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Brown-3-Tips-Parenting-Cover-Title-Instagram-Post-1-450x450.jpg 450w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with school refusal is stressful. You might get frustrated and overworry. Remember that you can better take care of your child when you are well.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prioritise your health and self-care. Find the simple activities that energise you and help you concentrate on your daily tasks. Some examples are nature walks, yoga, or talking to friends. This way, you can manage your stress.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Legal_Considerations\"><\/span><b>Legal Considerations<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">According to Child Law Advice,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/childlawadvice.org.uk\/information-pages\/school-attendance-and-absence\"> <b>school attendance is a legal requirement<\/b><\/a> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for all school-aged children in the UK. If your teen is persistently absent, there can be severe consequences for both them and you as a parent. While specific rules may vary depending on your local authority, repeated absences can lead to fines or other legal actions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Familiarise yourself with your school&#8217;s policies on attendance and the procedures your local authority follows.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<style type=\"text\/css\"><\/style><section id='' class='helpie-faq accordions faq-toggle open-first groupSettings-249__enabled ' data-collection='' data-pagination='0' data-search='0' data-pagination-enabled='0'><h3 class=\"collection-title\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Teenage_school_refusal_FAQ\"><\/span>Teenage school refusal FAQ<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3><article class=\"accordion \"><div class='helpie-faq-row'><div class='helpie-faq-col helpie-faq-col-12' ><ul><li class=\"accordion__item \"><div class=\"accordion__header \" data-id=\"post-9060\" data-item=\"hfaq-post-9060\" style=\"background:transparent;\" data-tags=\"\"><div class=\"accordion__title\">Is there a link between OCD and teen school refusal?<\/div><\/div><div class=\"accordion__body\" style=\"background:transparent;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Obsessive-compulsive behaviours can make school attendance challenging for students. Anxiety, which is common among people with OCD, can also lead to school avoidance.\u00a0<\/span><\/div><\/li><li class=\"accordion__item \"><div class=\"accordion__header \" data-id=\"post-9061\" data-item=\"hfaq-post-9061\" style=\"background:transparent;\" data-tags=\"\"><div class=\"accordion__title\">Can I call the police if my child refuses to go to school in the UK?<\/div><\/div><div class=\"accordion__body\" style=\"background:transparent;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Calling the police is not appropriate if your child refuses to go to school. Contact the school and try to come up with a supportive plan. Remember, first, you need to identify the causes of school refusal.\u00a0<\/span><\/div><\/li><li class=\"accordion__item \"><div class=\"accordion__header \" data-id=\"post-9062\" data-item=\"hfaq-post-9062\" style=\"background:transparent;\" data-tags=\"\"><div class=\"accordion__title\">What is the best intervention for school refusal?<\/div><\/div><div class=\"accordion__body\" style=\"background:transparent;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The best school refusal intervention often involves a combination of approaches tailored to the child's needs. This may include working closely with the school to create a support plan, seeking mental health support, and gradually reintroducing the child to school in a supportive way.\u00a0<\/span><\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/article><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s common for teenagers to avoid school once in a while. But watching your child refuse school doesn&#8217;t make it more bearable. 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